I came up with an easy way to make it easier for you to pick up a girl, flirt and seduce her, and also feel confident asking a girl to have sex with you, because all guys don’t want to lose their chance to hook up. In this article, I will share with you basic, but very effective ways to ask a girl to have sex with you.

There are so many ways to approach a woman and seduce her, especially on adult hookup sites. However, many guys have lost confidence in asking a girl to have sex with them because they are afraid of rejection and don’t know how to approach her.

1 – Dress the Way You Want to Be Treated

You can be yourself in any way you like, it doesn’t matter what type of clothes you wear or the kind of shoes you wear, you are still the same person underneath. Make the effort to look attractive and put the most attractive aspect of yourself on show, don’t let the way you dress, or what you wear, put you off being confident to ask a girl to have sex with you.

2 – Know Your Intention

Before approaching a woman, you need to know what kind of seduction you are looking for. Asking a girl to have sex with you is more than picking up a hooker, even if this is what you initially want.

Are you looking for a one-night stand, to move forward in a relationship, to get a sex partner, or a booty call? Once you’ve decided which approach you want, you need to dress the way you want to be treated and pick up a woman that will allow you to show your best side and make her want to be with you.

3 – Pick the Right Girl


It’s all about picking the right girls, you are not asking a girl to have sex with you because you are an asshole. You are asking a girl to have sex with you because you want to connect with a beautiful, intelligent, strong woman who will accept your invitation.

You don’t need to meet every woman you approach and you don’t need to pick every type of woman you want to meet, focus on the ones that you can have some quality time with. Pick the ones that are not only attractive but also look like they could make a guy feel good, so your time with them is more enjoyable.

4 – Don’t Be Scared

You are not going to be rejected because you approach a girl, you need to learn to accept rejection and live with it. When you approach a girl you need to be confident because you need to look like you have nothing to hide and you are comfortable enough to ask a girl to have sex with you. It doesn’t matter if she rejects you, you still need to be yourself and not worry if she rejects you.

5 – Learn How to Approach a Woman

You need to have the plan to approach a woman and you need to do this in the best way you can. Start with her on a first date or in a social setting and build from there. Don’t be afraid to approach a girl, a lot of guys get rejected and turn away because they are too scared to approach a woman. Don’t be scared to pick up a girl, you can’t be better than anyone else so don’t waste your time and be confident.

6 – Don’t Wait for Women


You need to be confident in your approach, you can’t make her the first person to agree to have sex with you. You need to give her something to want before you get into bed with her. You need to make her want to be with you, and this isn’t going to happen if you don’t approach the right girls.

7 – Flirt Like a Pro

As a guy, you need to be confident, you need to use the right approach with a girl, you need to show her what she is missing and you need to be more interesting than the guys she is meeting. You need to think like a girl and use the best type of flirting and approach to lead her on and let her know you want to get to know her better.

8 – Don’t Be Passive

The worst thing you can do is be passive in your approach, don’t let a woman take control of the situation. If you do this you are giving away your power, giving her the opportunity to be in control and have her say no.

You need to use your charm, your attitude, and your charisma to lead her on, she is most likely a woman who is looking for a man and will want to go on a date with you. Be more interesting than any other guy she is meeting and make sure you are leading the conversation.

9 – Show Interest

Don’t keep everything to yourself, show your interest in her, if you are interested in her talk to her. Show her you’re attracted to her by talking to her, flirting with her and making eye contact, it will be much easier for her to get interested in you and for you to get into bed with her. You are also giving her an opportunity to say no if she doesn’t want to have sex with you.

10 – Take the Initiative


Never wait for the woman you are approaching to do the talking, if you want to have sex with her you need to do the talking. You need to do the talking by leading the conversation and controlling the situation. She wants to know you better so you need to make her want to get to know you.

You need to focus on what you want to do when you first meet her and don’t worry about how you look or if she thinks you are handsome, just focus on the kind of person you want to get to know. Take your time to get to know her, she needs to feel comfortable and relaxed so she can open up to you.